Perception is everything, or is it??
\nDo you really know who someone truly is??<\/p>\n
Some people are awesome at self-promotion, to the extent that they will engage the services of a PR to develop their \u2018brand\u2019 or public personae, and it is amazing just who pays for it. There are innumerable socialites and business people who pay for the proper introductions, and invitations to sparkly events so they can meet the \u2018right\u2019 people.<\/p>\n
Different people may perceive the same person in totally different ways, one may be excited to be their \u2018friend\u2019 , in newspeak, \u2018honoured\u2019 to be their acquaintance, when another may see them as a total fraud. Who is right??
\nObviously, there is context, as well as personal experience and judgement.
\nAdd to that, the fact that some view the world through pink lenses, and always believe what they are told. So, if they were introduced to someone and told the individual is super successful, the new associate will obviously identify with them in a positive manner.
\nIssues include context, social, business, timing, physical chemistry, jealousy, as well as something as simple as having a good or bad day. Some people are gullible, and are totally swayed by those who are able self promoters, they truly WANT to believe. The art of self-aggrandizement, particularly today with the volume and nature of social media, as well as many people feeling socially inferior, are apt to grasp on to the person who appears to have a large, fabulous life, as they hope that, by extension, they will be a part of it.
\nThe question which must be asked is, how much is real?? Are you a follower, a believer or a doubter??
\nAdmittedly, I am a doubter, If something or someone appears too good to be true, and I have never either heard of them, or been under a totally different perception, I tend to investigate to establish whether my perceptions and at times physical reaction to someone is accurate.
\nI know for a fact that I am the epitome of the wrong first impression, most women who judge me and know nothing about me are virtually ALWAYS wrong, and I mean TOTALLY wrong, not just a little, and this is the basis point for this discussion.<\/p>\n
The younger generation are obsessed with following movie stars and bloggers and their perceived \u2018fabulous lives\u2019, but how much is true?? We know that you can actually BUY friends and \u2018clicks\u2019 today, so, do they really have 1 million followers, or is it really 50,000 and a lot of buying power??
\nIf you are trying to associate with someone simply because you believe them to be successful, shouldn\u2019t you ask the question as to why they would actually want to associate with YOU??? What is it they are seeking? Friends?? Sycophants?? Or is it more of the fa\u00e7ade\u2026\u2026? Do they feel so insecure that they need to have someone with them at all times??<\/p>\n
Actions speak louder than words, so follow the actions and not the rhetoric. The reality may be far from what you perceive\u2026\u2026\u2026.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Perception is everything, or is it?? Do you really know who someone truly is?? Some people are awesome at self-promotion, to the extent that they will engage the services of a PR to develop their \u2018brand\u2019 or public personae, and it is amazing just who pays for it. There are innumerable socialites and business people … Continue reading WHO are you??<\/span>