Bringing a seriously cheap bottle of wine to an event in someone\u2019s home, digging in their closed cupboards to retrieve a fine vintage wine, slinking into a corner, opening the bottle and consuming it by yourself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Yes, you did see this posted recently in the BLOG entitled \u2018On being Selfish\u2019, however, the outpouring of people calling and writing about this issue was extraordinary. Some of your examples absolutely hysterical, but at the same time, so very sad, as so many people are treating their hosts in such a greedy and callous manner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
You are absolutely welcome to share this BLOG, with the hopes that maybe one person recognizes their disgusting behaviour and changes it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Arriving at the home of an extremely generous hostess empty handed, grazing your way through the most expensive food and drink, then having the audacity to ask the servers to prepare a plate for you to bring home.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sneaking food home from a cocktail party. I have seen people filling endless napkins with huge Tiger Shrimp and other delectables, one rude wag actually would go into a corner and slip food into a large baggie, then go back for more. This event was NOT billed as TAKE OUT, it was in a private home, nor was it a fundraiser where the guests were expected to pay for a ticket. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Being invited to dinner then spending the entire evening texting on your phone, and not participating. If you didn\u2019t want to come, next time, stay home.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Imposing your children on others They are simply NOT that cute or that special, and we do NOT want to hear about them or see their pictures.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Going to any Birthday Party empty handed, even if someone is hosting it for you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Going to a Cocktail, Dinner , or Anniversary party empty handed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Not sending a Thank You note. (see above)<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Not sending flowers, or a gift to the hostess. (see above) <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Aggressively asking someone for their assistance, then abruptly telling them that they are no longer required, as you have found another solution. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Telling everyone over a period of several months about your impending nuptials, claiming it will be \u2018high society\u2019, ( if YOU have to say it, then clearly it is NOT\u2026.) cheating with everything that walks on your soon to be wife, bragging endlessly to your male friends about your conquests, \u2026some of whom told some of us\u2026\u2026.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sending invitations to your wedding to only some of the people to which you have been ranting endlessly over the past few months, filling the church with the guests who arrived all dressed up for this \u2018fabulous\u2019 occasion, having first sent expensive gifts to the home of the couple\u2026..After the ceremony, the couple walked down the aisle, got into a few cars, including a couple of Rolls Royces driven by friends, and driving off into the sunset.
\nThe guests naively thinking the wedding party was simply going to take pictures, found themselves standing around the church until they were rudely ushered out, and the church door loudly locked behind them.
\nWell over 100 people found themselves asking just WHAT exactly had happened, unfed, left behind, and utterly horrified. After a whle, some just wandered off, others went to a couple of restaurants for dinner, in complete and utter horror.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The wedding party, meanwhile, went to a private club for a very small, intimate dinner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
To say that my phone rang for weeks over this one, is an understatement.
\nNO ONE, let me repeat, NO ONE, had ever heard of, much less experienced anything as classless as this before, nor since.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Insisting on wearing your boots, shoes or whatever else footwear into a shoe free home. If you are told repeatedly NOT to wear shoes in the house, that is NOT an invitation to bring slippers or other footwear. NO shoes means NO shoes. It is the height of bad manners. If wearing your filthy footwear is more important than respecting the wishes of the hostess, please do us all a favour, and STAY home.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Going into a shop, having a shop clerk running around finding things for you to try on for over an hour, then leaving everything in a heap on the floor as if it was trash, and walking out without as much as a Thank You, or, making a purchase. That person is on commission, you just treated them worse than your personal servant, you stole an hour of their time for which they were not compensated, and worse, all the garments now look used and must be tidied and hung up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Going to a soiree in a high end fashion store, drinking copious quantities of alcohol, eating everything in sight, taking endless selfies with both expensive merchandise and guests who are utterly unaware they are being photographed, and not purchasing a thing.
\nYES\u2026.they DID see you, and YES, they are talking about it\u2026\u2026.guess how I found out about it!!!!!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Telling someone , \u201c we MUST do lunch repeatedly, I miss you SO MUCH\u2026.\u201d Then never calling\u2026\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Walking up to a celebrity at a Fund Raiser, interrupting them, foisting your business card into their hand, and loudly exclaiming so that half the room hear you speaking\u2026\u2026.\u201dI would LOVE to get together with you for lunch\u2026\u2026You MUST call me\u2026\u2026.\u201d\u2026..pretending to be their best friend, when they DO NOT HAVE the SLIGHTEST CLUE who you are, nor, are they remotely interested in finding out. Their horrified facial expression just told it all\u2026\u2026and YES, we saw it all\u2026\u2026..<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Turning upn at a fancy ball in a low cut, flouncy chiffon dress and carrying on like you are the Belle of the Ball. PLEASE take a serious look at yourself in the mirror. PLEASE repeat. \u2026. Maybe, once more, just to be sure\u2026\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
You are NOT a 16 year old, 100 pound anorexic model, nor are you a rock star. Exposing it ALL is just plain VULGAR.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Going to the aforementioned Ball, walking up to total strangers, interrupting their conversation mid sentence, and ingratiating yourself into their group. They do NOT know who you are, and after your incredibly rude pushy behaviour, have no interest whatsoever in finding out who you are.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Paying a PR to organize a reception in your Store \u2013 Art Gallery\u2026..then spending the evening fussing over the shiny new faces you have never seen before and totally ignoring those individuals who have been paying your bills for years\u2026.. You DO realize that we have an abundance of choices of where to shop, do you not???<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Fussing over the pretentious millenial who has 10 handbags spread all over the counter which she is photographing, and totally ignoring the quiet discreet individual who is actually dressed in high end designer clothes\u2026..if someone is wearing a huge diamond ring, a large Vuitton purse, Hermes shoes, scarf and belt, they can probably afford to buy something else\u2026\u2026..do you REALLY think the 20 year old has the cash?? Attitude is NOT cash.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Posting rude, beligerent comments on the Facebook pages of strangers just because you do not agree with them. You DO realize that you can be found, do you not???<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2026..and then there are the Drama Queens\u2026\u2026..why is it that some people just will NOT stop posting and carrying on endlessly whenever there is some incident in their lives?? Are we supposed to run to your side to support you in your milisecond of need?? Give you money?? Take you out for dinner to console you??? Pity you??? \u2026 For a few, the feelings towards them has now run to utter disgust. Reposting endlessly on the anniversary of your mother\u2019s death, her birthday, your dead friend, sending emails and sharing them with your friends to share so that your \u2018sorrow\u2019 is amplified a thousand times?? Stressing how we MUST all get together to support poor, sad you??<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Seriously???!!!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
What about the rest of us ??? We have ALL experienced loss, some of us have lived through absolutely horrific life events, yet, nary a call.
\nBut then, we were elegant, quiet, discreet. We did not tell anyone, We did not post and repost and amplify, tweet or whine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Walking into a grocery store with large reusable bags, filling them in the trolley, then arriving at the cash and paying for just a few items.
\nThis new, absolutely INSANE trend of forcing us to bring our own bags in order to shop has generated a level of theft which has exploded.
\nPeople, we are ALL PAYING for this.
\nSome of us have brought it to the attention of store managers, but it is now so extreme that it is an epidemic. PLEASE do something \u2026the cost of YOUR groceries will double if you do not.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Making a big deal about inviting someone to lunch to celebrate their birthday. Ordering cocktails and endless dishes that \u2018you MUST try,\u201d making absolutely sure that EVERYONE in the restaurant hears and sees you carrying on, then sticking the birthday boy with the total bill for several hundred dollars, who, just to be totally clear, ordered ONE plate of food and NO alcohol. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Truly, real life is more outrageous than make believe\u2026\u2026\u2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Bringing a seriously cheap bottle of wine to an event in someone\u2019s home, digging in their closed cupboards to retrieve a fine vintage wine, slinking into a corner, opening the bottle and consuming it by yourself. Yes, you did see this posted recently in the BLOG entitled \u2018On being Selfish\u2019, however, the outpouring of people … Continue reading Musings and Observations of Seriously BAD Behaviour<\/span>